Stefan Froese is the son of Tim & Karen Froese who served in South
Korea with Mennonite Church Canada Witness from ’98, returning to
Winnipeg, Manitoba in summer of 2004. Stefan is in Grade 10 and after
a year of living in Canada, organized a mini-learning tour for two of
his school friends, to give them a better understanding about life in
Korea. They accompanied Tim on a trip back to Korea in fall. Stefan writes:
“Hanging out with my friends at each other’s houses is
something we really enjoy. Although they often come to my house, I wanted
to invite them to my other home in Korea, where I had lived for six
years. Taking a trip overseas requires a lot of planning. With the help
of my parents, I had to make up an itinerary and figure out a budget.
We had to persuade the other parents to allow their kids to go (one
of the guys had never even been on a plane before) and we had to get
permission from our teachers to miss a week of school.
Even though I had been back in Canada for a full year, when I got off
the plane it felt as though I had never left Korea. It still felt like
home.
My friends had never been to a city as big as Seoul. They noticed the
crowds, the congested traffic, the smell of garlic and cigarette smoke.
They noticed that Korea was not multi-cultural, and that being Canadian
made them the only other ‘visible culture’. One of my friends
commented that this fact made them feel kind of alone. They found that
they were hungry a lot, mainly because there wasn’t a lot of meat
in the diet. We also had to do lots of walking up and down hills of
pavement which made our feet sore.
We had lots of fun hanging out in internet cafes, introducing them
to my hapkido (martial arts) teacher, and my Grade 5 teacher had us
all over for a meal. We went to a real palace, saw a concert, and shopped
at the markets. We visited my old church, and went to the largest church
in the world which is amazing (15,000 members).
My friends really enjoyed visiting my ‘home’ in Korea,
and it was fun for me to show them around. Now, when I want to talk
about something from Korea, two of my friends can identify with what
I am talking about. This trip helped us in our understanding of one
another, and was an experience of a lifetime!”
The mini-learning tour that Stefan organized has opened the eyes of
other young people about ministering in another cultural setting and how
we all grow in our understanding of God’s world as we learn from
each other